The only rule in tech is you never, ever, ever, rage quit.
What’s rage quitting?
It’s getting so pissed off, that you walk out the door and take whatever next job you find.
Now, let me point out there are circumstances where rage quitting is the right thing to do, and that’s where there are moral and ethical lines being crossed that you can not abide. Or where someone does something that is truly horrible. I have no experience in those kinds of circumstances, and I offer no useful advice. All I can say is – do what you need to do to be safe, and talk to a labor attorney.
But if you aren’t in one of those really bad places, why is rage quitting a bad plan?
First, it’s a bad plan because your next job is probably not going to be the next job you actually want. And so you’ll be looking for another job pretty soon after that.
Second. it’s a bad plan, because the person who pushed you to rage quit, is forcing you to leave on their terms, not yours.
Third, because it puts you in a vulnerable position. A lot of very bad people can tell if you are the kind of person who will rage quit. They will exploit that, to get you to quit. They will push your buttons, and get you so angry that you will quit.
And they don’t get to run your life, you get to run your life, and surrendering that much control to them is never a good idea.
So you are angry, and furious and pissed off and want to quit, what do you do?
First, take some time off. You can take time off at work, you can take time off at home, you can find the mental space to not be angry. As Joe Beda said, don’t rage quit, rage vacation.
Once you are done with the vacation, then figure out what the right next move is. Be honest with yourself, and determine what you want. In some cases, it’s going to find another job. In other cases, its talk to your boss or his boss about the fact you wanted to rage quit, and see if a change is possible.
But figure that out.
And then go get it.